To the Christian Divorcee: Now Chin Up & Become the Best Version of Yourself

Divorce does not have to be a death knell to your optimism. Let me repeat: divorce does not have to be a death knell to your optimism. Without a doubt, divorce is probably one of the hardest things you'll go through emotionally.  As we discussed in the first blog in this series, you will feel …

Guest Blogger, Gamal T. Alexander “Pull It Together”

The bundles of joy we bring into the world are a package deal, even if there are times when we’d gladly trade the other parent in - or demand a refund. Nevertheless, although it may be difficult, co-parenting is also doable, and necessary. After all, I’ve seen my daughters in action. They are a LOT …

To the Christian Divorcee: the cure for the uncommon lonely is found in an Ultimate love

Loneliness is a nasty little thing. Post-divorce, it seems to become nastier and meaner. Prior to divorce, you may have had moments when you felt at war with your former spouse. Without a doubt the loneliness was acute then too, wondering how you could be in the same bed with someone, but feel so distanced. …

To the Christian Divorcee: there is a healing power in forgiveness

In the last blog, "To the Christian Divorcee: there is nothing "wrong" with you", it addressed how, as a Christian Divorcee, you might often encounter some hurtful views and perspectives of you in regard to your divorce.  You might also still be dealing with hurts encountered by your ex.  All of those hurts can work …

To the Christian Divorcee – accept that there is nothing “wrong” with you

"What is so the matter with you that you could not keep your marriage afloat?  Don't you know how sacred marriage is?  Don't you know that God hates divorce?" If you are a Christian divorcee, I wager this question has been asked of you a few times, whether it has been directly, through a look, …